I wanna be free!!!

Freedom and love these are two things that every child craves from childhood. Freedom and love play an important role in moulding children in to good human beings. But how much freedom should parents allow their teenage children???

Well……..it depends on many factors that includes background-social, geographical, economical and constitution of the child. Some children are over sensitive. Some are insecure. Some are extremely independent. Freedom can -not be quantified and parents should understand the nature of their children. They should guide them to make use of freedom in a right way.

Teenage is a transitional phase from childhood to adulthood. Teenage is a phase burdened with stress due to hormonal influence. Naturally it’s accompanied by problems- personal and social. Basically, children must be exposed to life in such a way that they are able to adapt to different circumstances and adjust to difficult situations. This can be achieved by giving them the needed freedom based with love.  

In today’s lifestyle, most parents are working. This prevents them from spending time with their children. Children are left alone must of the time and which distract their mind from concentrating. So at least till the growing stage, parents should understand that their each moment of spending time with their children is so valuable and precious. Their help, support will always feel them like a friend which will never feel them that they are alone in this world. Parents should never equate granting too much freedom, gifts or money with love. Or permit them to do whatever they like so that they can be left in peace of a corner of their life. Only when children understand that it’s for their goods that parents are being firm will they use their freedom judiciously.